LOVE

Love,something which you see everyday,everywhere and every place.
You might be wondering why i am writing about love,its because love is one of the most beautiful gifts god has given us after parents.

SO the question comes as what is LOVE???
There are many definitions of love and i define it in a different way
"" love is a feeling in which the brain does not involve at all ""

" L- largely
O- overflowing
V- virtually infinite
E- energy "

There are many kinds of love,but according to me they can be classified as THREE kinds:

1.The love that exist between you and your parents:




The first love you felt was your mother's love when you were in her womb,you were protected all the time and you enjoyed all the luxury and ate all the food that is good for you and you did not know anything else except the love of your mother.You came out and saw the first person in this world that is your mother and then your father too.They nurtured you,looked after you.Your mother was your first teacher and she taught you what is good and bad,your parents did everything they can to give you the best possible life from their side.

As time went you started getting all the knowledge of this world.You became aware that you need to have amazing qualities in this world and you also developed your own tastes and as you completed your teenage and got your maturity you started to find ways to fulfill your developed tastes.

In the process somewhere you misunderstood your parents and started developing a gap between you and your parents.

If this has not happened with you what i told in the above paragraphs then my friend,
"" i am very happy for the way you have lead your life and i appreciate it wholeheartedly and i give my full support and best wishes to you and ask you to live your life in the same way and develop the love that is alive and kicking between you and your parents. ""

If what i told has happened in your life then i want to tell you something which i learnt in my life
"" if there is a huge gap between you and your parents,then that gap can be closed only by one substance that is love.There are so many things which you can do to create that love some of them are,
when your mother cooks something delicious and when your father brings and helps you in something,give an appreciation to them wholeheartedly with a "' smile "".if they are not happy with your academic marks and results,take some time from them work a little harder everyday and score good marks,"" if your parents take all the risk and sacrifice all their small dreams for your education and expect you to get a little good marks and be consistent in it then my friend,there is nothing wrong in that"".

if your parents is not happy with what you r doing and what you want to do,sit with them and in a very calm and comfortable way using sweet and good words make them understand what it is you want to do or doing, take some time and get the required result to show them that your decision was correct,""your parents will be the most happiest people if you succeed in what you want to do"".

if your parents are not happy with the girl you have chosen in your life then the best way is"" introduce your girl to your mother when she is in a happy mood and make sure that your girl is well dressed in the way your mother want,somehow make them meet regularly in different places and when your mother has got a good opinion about your girl,tell her about your love and she will take care of the rest"".

Remember:
""the best thing your parents have in their life is you"".


2. The love that exist between you and your soul-mate.


This is the best kind of love that exist in this universe and the most powerful. Every human being has the ability and has the right to experience this feeling, you can use any words to describe it but you will only understand it "' when you feel the feeling of being truly loved by the person who you are truly loving "".


Many people fail in this love and they get depressed because they are hurt:
If you are in this category,then my friend you are very lucky because when you experience love failure,you really get to know how you will feel when you are truly being loved, its not about the love which is lost, but it is the true love which will be found.There are so many people in this world but there is only one perfect match for you,it will come in the right timing and in the right situation. Wait for it,prepare yourself for that moment both mentally and financially so that when it happens you can handle it efficiently.

"" when you fall and find your true love,it will be heaven,but the waiting part in life for it to happen is much more exiting and thrilling so enjoy it too ""



Many people are sad because they are not able to find their true love:

Since there is only one person who you will be happy with you,do not simply go around trying to find who that person is, instead prepare yourself to be better person and make yourself comfortable and try to reach the level which you want to achieve so that when you meet your true love there is no problem or obstacle from your side.

Remember:

""in this world there is only one person who has a missing piece for the completion of your life and that missing piece will be with the person who is specially made for you and you will be having the missing piece to complete that person and you are specially made for that person, and when you meet that person,you will complete his/her life and she/he will complete your life,you will be happy only with that person and that person will be happy only with you,so you both will meet"".


Many people are not able to express their true feeling and love:

well my friend i want to tell you only one thing
"" if you are truly loving someone than whatever you speak when expressing your love and proposing that person,WILL BE THE MOST ROMANTIC WORDS HE/SHE WOULD HAVE EVER HEARD "".


3. The love that exist for yourself that is loving yourself:



How many people love themselves???????do you???

I HAVE A VERY INTERESTING STORY TO SHARE WITH YOU:

I know a boy who was very sad and depressed in his life. He had very less friends and those who were his friends used to make fun of him and harass him for what ever he did or for what ever he spoke,they pulled his leg all the time and never bothered about how he felt!!.Years passed he never got any good friends at all.One day something amazing happened, The boy looked at the mirror and told himself that "" there is no one like me in this world,there is no one who can smile like me,or speak like me or feel and think the way i do ""

He developed for the first time a feeling of liking towards himself,he started smiling a lot, started caring for himself and eventually began loving himself. He started becoming happy day by day and he found new friends,really good friends. His life changed because he changed by loving himself for what he is.

My question for you is
"" Do you treat and love yourself in the same way you want others to treat you and love you""?


Remember:

"" There is no one in this world who is like you,there is no one who can smile like you,or speak like the way you speak,you are unique,you are the outcome of the creation of god who took so many years to design you.Do not let yourself down when you make a mistake,appreciate yourself when you achieve or do something good,be proud to be what you are and admire your every little good work,do not feel inferior when you see someone who is better than you.
Compare yourself with what you are and what you can be, you are children of the almighty,you are sparks of the infinite divine fire,LOVE YOURSELF FOR WHAT YOU ARE"".




""WE LOVE TO LIVE,WE LIVE TO LOVE,
TIME CAN DESTROY EVERYTHING BUT NOT LOVE,
THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIFT WHICH YOU CAN GIVE TO OTHERS IS LOVE,
FEEL IT,ENJOY IT,EXPERIENCE IT,LOVE IT ""

DREAMS

WHAT DOES THE WORD " DREAMS " ACTUALLY MEAN????

""" Dreams are not those which come after you sleep but dreams are those which never let you sleep """


The word dream is one of the most wonderful English word.It has such a powerful meaning.There is a lot to share and explain with respect to this word.

Dreams mean many things to many people.For some people it might be buying a brand new car,for some people it might me getting a dream job and for some people it might be just being happy and having a peace of mind in their life.I do not know what kind of dream you dream but as i have come to know a dream comes in our mind just to tell us not to put limitations and boundaries in our mind and limiting ourselves from truly becoming who we are supposed to be!!!!

Many people dream in a fantastic way,they dream to live d most luxurious lifestyle and be one of the most successful people in the society who has a lot of name,fame and money.But if you see their current state of living,you can see that they are struggling very hard,they are in dept,they have some health problem and stuck in a reality in which they have in front of them a mountain full of difficulties and problems.And looking at all these present situations they decide and jump to a conclusion that they wont be able to accomplish what they dream and they start thinking that ""its just a illusion,not practical,not possible,god does not want them to be happy,may be i have done a lot of sins in my past birth so i am paying the price now"".

If you have read the above paragraph and if you are living in the same reality,then my friend i want to tell you that "" your dream come to you only to get you out of the state in which you think you are suffering"",you believe me or not, what i told you," it is absolutely true ".


If you do a little research,it will be clear to you that 90% of all the successful people who have lived and who are living on this planet were once broke,poor,they were failures,some of them were considered freaks by others and so on....

but still they achieved it the glory,name, fame,money but how????????????.......
the answer is very simple
When they used to face a problem they didn't tell themselves "" i have got a problem and i cannot achieve it "" but they always used to tell themselves "" i have got a problem but still i will achieve it "".

They had a very positive attitude towards life and they slowly became who they were supposed to be.......

I want to share an example with respect to the advantage of having or developing a positive attitude-
Once there was a man in d united state of America in the early 20th century.He had a factory which was running quite successfully.One day some disaster occurred and the factory was on fire and was burnt completely,one of the people who were standing asked this man how he was feeling and this man replied WITH A SMILE "" all my mistakes got burned up,i can start in a fresh new way "" and within two or three weeks later he invented one of most famous instruments in the world,the phonograph. YES this man is none other than the great THOMAS EDISON. WHAT AN ATTITUDE!!!!


"" follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls-Joseph Campbell """


There is one more category of people who also dream a lot,and also, they have all the facilities
that a rich and wealthy man has but they think its not possible for them to achieve because they do not believe that they can.There are many reasons for it

1. They have never tried it
2. They do not want to take too much risk.

Don't you get bored if you do and experience the same things all the time,do something different and experience something new,oh u might say "i don't want to take risk in my life"..

"" if u risk nothing then you risk everything in your life ""

Do something new,if you fail its not the end you learn something new again, why do you fear to make mistakes???

"" if u keep on doing the same thing you will get the same results,if you want something new than you start doing something new and different ""

Discover something new every now and then in your life,there is so much to enjoy,so much to see,so much to learn and its never ending.....

Remember ""We have got only one shot at this game called life""



""""" When there is darkness surrounding all over,a Dream is like d diamond ring that occurs during a total solar eclipse shining and spreading light all over the place and removing the darkness completely till it vanishes """"".

Remember that """ you have to make your dreams come true,there is no one who is going to help you achieve your dreams because they have their own dreams to to accomplish,depend on yourself than depending on others,trust your strengths capitalize on your weakness instead of criticizing it,become who you promised yourself that you are going to be """.Don't see your current results in life and the past mistakes,it does not decide what you are going to become in your life, "" its your dreams and the quality of your dreams that decide what you will become in your life "".Dream big,dream high,have rich dreams,reach for the stars,before you go away from this planet,make a mark which cannot be erased by time.


"""""""""""""" if u can dream it,then you can achieve it """""""""""""""